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CONFIDENCE WEEK: Your Personal Brand Needs YOU

Who are you?  Really.  How would you like to be perceived?  And which of these personas ends up speaking on your behalf to recruiters, hiring managers and fellow networkers?

Knowing who you are, where your natural talents truly fall and how to get those ideas across quickly are key to establishing and building a personal brand.

So here are three questions to ask yourself:

Who Are You, Anyway?

Based on answers from people in networking rooms, I sometimes wonder just how well we know ourselves.  And despite having an unusually large amount of time to think this one through, most job seekers know little about themselves and what they are really looking for in their career.  But they know where they’ve been.

So how do you build a personal brand without a pretty good sense of who you are?  And how do you get someone to pick up your flag and run with it?  If the flag appears to be white and without a unique design?

When you answer a question, are you expressing your real self or the self that sounds presentable to a bunch of strangers (i.e. makes you sound extra-interesting, more business-like)?  If your Mom was in the crowd or your best friend from college, would they be scowling at you or smiling and nodding their head as you share the pieces of you that truly set your brand apart from the rest?

What Are Your Natural Talents?

Certain things come easy to some people.  And those same things can be next to impossible for someone else.  Why is that?  Well beyond the “strengths and weaknesses” conversation, this asks you to not only know what you are naturally good at doing.  It also asks what you enjoy doing.  Very different.  For example, I am strong with a budget and a P&L but give me a choice between that and a brainstorming session or a strategy discussion, I’ll slide the budget over to someone else.  I know that about myself.

Knowing where your true talents fall and recognizing how to capitalize on them, can make all the difference in an interview.  And sometimes, being true to yourself means telling a hiring manager some real specific truths.   Truths that may derail a job opportunity that you thought you really wanted.  These are the same truths, however, that will line you up perfectly for the right job a few weeks later.

How Do These Get Communicated?

Are you ready to share with others?  Do you have a strong elevator pitch, a clear positioning statement and a way to share these that makes others more open to receive your content?  If you are standing up in front of 25 or 50 people sharing aspects of your personal brand, will anyone really care?  Immediately?  How about 15 minutes later after 15 others have spoken?  Your authentic delivery of relevant and interesting content about YOU is necessary.  That delivery will be remembered long after those that come across as vague and irrelevant.  Long-winded and otherwise not meaningful loses out every time.

Your smile, your stories and your eye contact communicate character.  And character makes me want to remember you.

Long after we’ve met.

If you missed the first day of CONFIDENCE WEEK, you can see that article here:

Welcome To CONFIDENCE WEEK:  Finding Your Dimmer Switch


Written by: Tim Tyrell-Smith
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  • http://profile.typepad.com/suzyubry Suzy Ubry

    Hi Tim,
    Great start to Confidence Week!
    I’m with you that it is *my* responsibility to present myself as I want to be perceived. After all the best person to represent me … is me! :)
    From my personal experience, I found that realizing who my authentic and genuine self was came from putting some serious and thoughtful effort into answering the “Tell me about yourself” question. I believe making an honest effort into answering this question is so important that I offered to lead an interactive discussion on it at my networking group next week.
    And as a bonus … from this two-minute answer, I was able to create my 30-second pitch and what I do in 7 words: “Provide innovative and efficient administrative support solutions.”
    Finding my personal brand was definitely hard work, but the resulting ability to present my “unique marginal difference” succinctly and confidently was definitely worth the effort because it positively affects so many areas of my job search.
    Looking forward to the rest of the week!
    - Suzy

  • http://profile.typepad.com/suzyubry Suzy Ubry

    Hi Tim,
    Great start to Confidence Week!
    I’m with you that it is *my* responsibility to present myself as I want to be perceived. After all the best person to represent me … is me! :)
    From my personal experience, I found that realizing who my authentic and genuine self was came from putting some serious and thoughtful effort into answering the “Tell me about yourself” question. I believe making an honest effort into answering this question is so important that I offered to lead an interactive discussion on it at my networking group next week.
    And as a bonus … from this two-minute answer, I was able to create my 30-second pitch and what I do in 7 words: “Provide innovative and efficient administrative support solutions.”
    Finding my personal brand was definitely hard work, but the resulting ability to present my “unique marginal difference” succinctly and confidently was definitely worth the effort because it positively affects so many areas of my job search.
    Looking forward to the rest of the week!
    - Suzy

  • http://www.themarq.com Arash Sayadi

    I’m curious: don’t we portray a limited picture of ourselves whether we’re dealing with strangers or family? I’m not sure that it’s a bad thing we don’t expose every little detail about ourselves to everyone we meet, but I agree that what we portray has to be genuine; a partial picture of who we are. This portrayal should be familiar to everyone we already know…including mom!
    Thank you for the post.

  • http://www.themarq.com Arash Sayadi

    I’m curious: don’t we portray a limited picture of ourselves whether we’re dealing with strangers or family? I’m not sure that it’s a bad thing we don’t expose every little detail about ourselves to everyone we meet, but I agree that what we portray has to be genuine; a partial picture of who we are. This portrayal should be familiar to everyone we already know…including mom!
    Thank you for the post.

  • http://profile.typepad.com/1220292248s14607 Tim Tyrell-Smith

    Hi Suzy – Yes, I agree with your focus on the “tell me about yourself” question. It is often the first one we get and sets the tone for the interview. It also is your first chance to position yourself in the mind of the interviewer. To get their head nodding. To get them smiling. All good stuff.

  • http://profile.typepad.com/1220292248s14607 Tim Tyrell-Smith

    Hi Suzy – Yes, I agree with your focus on the “tell me about yourself” question. It is often the first one we get and sets the tone for the interview. It also is your first chance to position yourself in the mind of the interviewer. To get their head nodding. To get them smiling. All good stuff.

  • http://profile.typepad.com/1220292248s14607 Tim Tyrell-Smith

    Arash – Yes, I suppose we offer only a glimpse to some. My point is that there are people out there (often family or friends) who know us well and can see our sincerity (or lack of) through the way we are pitching our skills and experience. Their knowledge of us (what we share and what they witness and experience) allows them to see us either as genuine or as one stretching the truth to better fit an idealized version of ourselves, One that might be more compelling to the market but less reproducible.

  • http://profile.typepad.com/1220292248s14607 Tim Tyrell-Smith

    Arash – Yes, I suppose we offer only a glimpse to some. My point is that there are people out there (often family or friends) who know us well and can see our sincerity (or lack of) through the way we are pitching our skills and experience. Their knowledge of us (what we share and what they witness and experience) allows them to see us either as genuine or as one stretching the truth to better fit an idealized version of ourselves, One that might be more compelling to the market but less reproducible.

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